Desperate for Marriage
Marriage, Marriage everywhere...
Every time i went to a family gathering this question's popped out from everywhere : "When will you get Married???"
My answer is simple : "Perhaps in 6 - 8 years from now"
Why?? because i'm not ready to get married yet. Everyone should get married when they're READY, not when they WANT TO. There're so many friends of mine (girls especially) that's desperate for marrying someone. Marrying someone is like getting an occupation, when you thinking about marriage, you need to think : "what do i look in marriage?" "what kind of guy/girl do i need?" "am i mentally and financially ready to marrying someone?"
Because what girls?? Marriage isn't the end of the road, it's the beginning of a life challenge. Different than fairytale after you're married, you wont have you're "happily ever after moment" you need to work your ass off to keep it. Are you sure you're up for it?? Marriage is a commitment that you should keep for the rest of your life, a promise to keep and to love each other for better or worse.
So, before you're married, ask yourself this :
Are you sure that you're ready? and that person that you think you love are worth for the worst moment in your life? are you sure you can spend the rest of your life with him/her?
Please, don't marrying someone because you fear of you're getting old and you're afraid you wont find your soulmate. With such a big commitment, and many people are at stakes (family, kids) you just can't take that risk. It's better you're married late and have other people judging you as an old spinster, than have you're marriage failed and fucked up. Please, don't be that desperate, find the right guy/girl and right time, no matter how much you need.
Happy finding your moment and life partner! :D
Every time i went to a family gathering this question's popped out from everywhere : "When will you get Married???"
My answer is simple : "Perhaps in 6 - 8 years from now"
Why?? because i'm not ready to get married yet. Everyone should get married when they're READY, not when they WANT TO. There're so many friends of mine (girls especially) that's desperate for marrying someone. Marrying someone is like getting an occupation, when you thinking about marriage, you need to think : "what do i look in marriage?" "what kind of guy/girl do i need?" "am i mentally and financially ready to marrying someone?"
Because what girls?? Marriage isn't the end of the road, it's the beginning of a life challenge. Different than fairytale after you're married, you wont have you're "happily ever after moment" you need to work your ass off to keep it. Are you sure you're up for it?? Marriage is a commitment that you should keep for the rest of your life, a promise to keep and to love each other for better or worse.
So, before you're married, ask yourself this :
Are you sure that you're ready? and that person that you think you love are worth for the worst moment in your life? are you sure you can spend the rest of your life with him/her?
Please, don't marrying someone because you fear of you're getting old and you're afraid you wont find your soulmate. With such a big commitment, and many people are at stakes (family, kids) you just can't take that risk. It's better you're married late and have other people judging you as an old spinster, than have you're marriage failed and fucked up. Please, don't be that desperate, find the right guy/girl and right time, no matter how much you need.
Happy finding your moment and life partner! :D
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