Love Hunt 101

For this several month, i've been counseling a lot of people, and it's mainly about finding True love/Life Partner.

Some are concern that they will be married late

Some are feeling down on themselves because they're been single for far too long

Some are feeling down because they feel like they're always fall in love with the wrong person.

Some are feeling down because they're been rejected too many times

Well i got one thing too say about all of you that feeling the same way :

"You're not Alone"

Finding true love is hard for so many people, well.. Logically you're selecting 1 person from 6 Billions of people, of course it will be hard for most of us.

and to find it, you've got two choices.. each has it's own consequences and advantages

you can actively search for partner. It could be an adventure, you can meet and know lot's of people, you'll have fun on the process, and you can even speed up the process. But the consequences is : you'll might find a lot of wrong people for you. This can resulting a lot of heartbreak.

or..

you can live your life like usual, set your goal for another thing that might be more important for your future and wait for your love to come to you. Just take the love opportunity that present in front of you, if there're no opportunity, just live your life like usual. You might get lonely, but there you can learn to live happy by yourself, and not dependent to other people

Don't feel down on yourself. Each person has it's own different path and difficulties to find love. They can be have many partner frequently, but have to deal with a lot of heartbreak or breaking other's heart. Or they can be single and lonely for a long time, or rejected frequently.

as for me from my point of view i can say this :

It's hurt less to be rejected, than having to fall in love with the wrong person and having your heart break.

Hey being single can also be fun! : 

No one control you, you are free

No one makes you insecure

You don't need to check someone or be checked by someone everyday

No one makes you jealous

No one can demand you to sacrifice things

and.. a lot more money for you (dating require money)

For me, everybody needs to learn to be happy by themselves and not too dependant on others for it's own happiness. 

If you find someone, and you want to be with him/her make sure it because you're really like them for who they are, not because you're afraid, bored or tired of being lonely. 

Happy loving guys :D