True Perception
Hey all, sorry i haven't blogged for a while. Been really busy with vacation to my Grandmother's house for Eid Mubarak
But now i'm back again and i wanna talk about perception. This is closely related to judgment. Many of us doesn't like being judge,
Some of us :
- spent many times worrying about judgement from other people.
- spent many times hating someone who falsely judge us
- spent many times wondering why must people judge others?
- use many effort to avoiding people's judgement
- use many effort to judge people who judge as an act of self defense
All of this is a huge waste of time, mind and spirit. Why? you can think or do something else with your mind, and time.
You don't need to be angry, hate or worried if someone judge that you're wrong, because, the thing is that judgment, is coming from perception.. and perception is always (subjectively) right. People judge someone based on what they see on their 5 senses. If someone judge you wrong, that's because that's what they see in you. It's all about communication, if you're wrongly judge by people, it's mostly because you're having problem in communicating it.
i'll give you an example :
There's a company that can make a really functional product, with good quality. But because they use wrong marketing communication, the society thinks that the product is a bad product and the sales dropped. Whose fault is this?? the company that use the wrong communication?? or the society that judge based on the company's communication?
So rather than get angry, hating or accusing someone for being judgmental, think for a moment on How you communicate yourself to other people.
But that doesn't mean that you can make everyone agree with your point in your communication.
It's all about the proportion, if most people don't agree with your point then there's something wrong with your way on communicate things, but if most people agree, then you're doing fine. Sure, you can maximized the number of proportion by keep on improving your communication. But don't ever expect everyone agreed with you.
Because No matter what you do, no matter what you're saying.. There will always be people out there judging you, there will always be people out there don't like you. You can be as godly and as kind like Mother Teresa, there will always people think that you're fake. AND SCREW THEM!
Happy contemplating on your way in improving people perception on you people!
You don't need to be angry, hate or worried if someone judge that you're wrong, because, the thing is that judgment, is coming from perception.. and perception is always (subjectively) right. People judge someone based on what they see on their 5 senses. If someone judge you wrong, that's because that's what they see in you. It's all about communication, if you're wrongly judge by people, it's mostly because you're having problem in communicating it.
i'll give you an example :
There's a company that can make a really functional product, with good quality. But because they use wrong marketing communication, the society thinks that the product is a bad product and the sales dropped. Whose fault is this?? the company that use the wrong communication?? or the society that judge based on the company's communication?
So rather than get angry, hating or accusing someone for being judgmental, think for a moment on How you communicate yourself to other people.
But that doesn't mean that you can make everyone agree with your point in your communication.
It's all about the proportion, if most people don't agree with your point then there's something wrong with your way on communicate things, but if most people agree, then you're doing fine. Sure, you can maximized the number of proportion by keep on improving your communication. But don't ever expect everyone agreed with you.
Because No matter what you do, no matter what you're saying.. There will always be people out there judging you, there will always be people out there don't like you. You can be as godly and as kind like Mother Teresa, there will always people think that you're fake. AND SCREW THEM!
Happy contemplating on your way in improving people perception on you people!
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